They say ‘seeing is believing’ but in a lot of cases, it’s actually the believing that enables the seeing!
Sometimes you just cannot see (or hear) what is right in front of you. Sometimes its an opportunity and sometimes it’s even something you are looking for. However, it just doesn’t register! The official name for these mental blind spots is Schotoma and they are strongly linked to our beliefs. J.D. Meier’s article, “In the book, Unlimited Power: The New Science of Personal Achievement and Tony Robbins talks about schotomas.
There is a lot of Truth to this statement and ironically I feel there is something overlooked in the analysis. It is Asking. Yes, asking the invisible realm within the Heart. The place where Love, Joy, Peace, Happiness and Quiet Awareness are attended and always waiting to be Acknowledged to spring forth like the Sun bursting through the clouds.
We all have on demand access to this realm… watch my video describing how I do it and how to get out of your own way.
We have access to this, faster than you can operate a TV remote or even faster than pressing the send button for an email.
This something called The Holy Spirit, Buddha Nature, The Self, Higher Self, God Awareness, Infinite Intelligence to name a few.
The one I love the most depersonalizes this connection; I call it my Deepest Love and Understanding. This brings it right into Me as Pure Presence the Me as God created Me.
Can you work with that?
Pick one of the names above or fill in your own blank with a name that feels suitable to you. Hold this connection in your heart (this is for you, please take the time for you) and join me as I share two easy steps to this life changing insight.
For this experience, right now tell the mind to be still. You have this power, now use it.
Step 1. Quietly say Peace be still and with eyes closed.
Step 2. Acknowledge the Quiet place in the mind I call Quiet Awareness.
Like the Sky You are unaffected by the clouds that go by and like the movie screen you are completely unaffected by the movie.
In this Quiet Awareness you have left the world and you are transported into the Eternal Present as Pure light. What you are is beyond words, beyond thoughts, emotions, personal data, time and space or even feelings. This is your connection with your Deepest Love and Understanding. This is your Divine Nature, Your Birth right. Stay here as long as you want and come back often to remember your connection to the You you have always been looking for and maybe didn’t believe it because you were hiding from it.
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Many people think A Course in Miracles is difficult to do. It’s not. It’s one of the easiest things in the world once you make a commitment to it.
But many buy the book and then feel completely overwhelmed by the number of pages. Once they do attempt to begin reading, many people feel confused by the message. They have no clue who wrote A Course in Miracles or what it means. They have no idea how to begin or what to do.
In this video, I will go into detail about how to ‘do’ A Course In Miracles:
Buy a copy of A Course in Miracles. There are online versions, including free versions, and you can certainly go that route, but many people find it helpful to have the actual book.
Make a one-year commitment to train your mind by doing the workbook lessons. The Workbook Lessons are in the middle of the book, after Chapter 31. Quite a lot of people are unaware there are 365 workbook lessons. You do one lesson a day. It takes one year to complete. To understand how to do the workbook lessons, make sure to read the “Introduction” which can be found after the Table of Contents for the Workbook Lessons (again, it’s in the middle of the book, so just flip through until you find it). It never ceases to amaze me how many people who have just purchased the book do not understand there are workbook lessons in here, or how to do them. It’s all explained in the Introduction, in simple easy instructions.
As for completing the rest of A Course in Miracles, find what works for you. You might decide to start with the Text. You may decide to start with the Manual for Teachers. You may decide to read the Song of Prayer or the Psychotherapy Booklet. You may decide a combination of all of these. That part is up to you. Read it at a pace that feels right to you. You probably will need to rearrange your schedule to make time to read it – for example, you may decide to read one chapter a week, or a section a day, or maybe even a chapter a day (but that’s ambitious!).
Watch the video above for the full message.
I would love to hear from you!
Question: How do YOU do A Course in Miracles? What has your experience been with it? You can leave a comment by clicking here.
Want even more training and encouragement? Here are several ways to begin:
Register for a FREE online 2-hour LIVE workshop with Lisa Natoli “One Bold Decision: Change Your Story, Change Your Life” on Saturday, January 14, 2017 from 1pm-3pm. There will be a replay recording available for a few days after for people who are registered: http://teachersofgod.org/webcast
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FULL TRANSCRIPT:
(The following is the full transcript of this video with Lisa Natoli. Please note that this video, like all our videos, features our teachers speaking unscripted and unedited. Enjoy!)
Hi. Welcome!
I’m Lisa Natoli and the co-founder of the Teachers of God Foundation. I am the author of Gorgeous for God and the creator of the 40 Day Program for Transformation. I thank you so much for being here with me today.
I’d like to talk about the number one question that I receive as a teacher of A Course in Miracles:
“How do I do it?”
People often buy a copy of A Course in Miracles and then have no idea where to start. I really want to talk about that today.
My husband Bill Free and I were talking last night about how each of us individually began our journey with A Course in Miracles. I told him that I hadn’t known of a single person who had heard about A Course in Miracles for five years. I had no clue what this book was. Bill had a completely different experience. He watched videos, movies, joined groups, and researched it. He knew exactly what it was when he began. He knew of the workbook in here. I didn’t even know that. I want to talk about this.
This is the standard copy of the book from the Foundation for Inner Peace. It includes all of the different books inside. I want to show you the different versions of the book that I have here with me.
I actually have the original version from 1975. It was originally published as three books. It is a text with 31 chapters in it. It has a Workbook for Students that include 365 workbook lessons in it. It takes one year to complete. It has a Manual for Teachers. This is the original 1975 addition. They since have changed that.
I got the book in 1992. I did not have a clue what this book was. All I knew is that it was A Course in Miracles and I thought that was really cool.
I thought:
“A Course in MIRACLES! Okay, I could use that.”
I remember opening up the book and at first being completely turned off by the religious terminology.
I personally think the preface is very difficult to understand. I’m sure that other people have a very different perception of it. I did not understand that there was a workbook with 365 lessons inside of this book.
When it said, “Manual for Teachers”, I didn’t understand that I was a teacher.
Personally, I was very confused.
For the first five years, I would open the book randomly. That was from 1992-1996, 1997. I finally met a man in New York City who told me about the workbook.
He said, “There are 365 lessons and you make a one-year commitment to do them. It is a mind training. You train your mind in a systematic way into a different perception of everyone and everything.”
I just want to point that out to you. It’s in the middle of the book. I know this might sound very basic to those who are already doing it. My mom just got a copy of the book. She told me over the phone the other day that she really wants to do it now. She’s been listening to me for a long time. She did the 40 Day Program for Transformation and totally loved it. She called me on the phone the other day and she said, “I want to do A Course in Miracles.” I was like, “Really? Oh my God.”
So, she got a copy of the book, called me again, and said,
“Okay, now what?”
I realized that this is the number one question I get asked from people. They come up to me, have the book, and say,
“I have it. What do I do?”
My suggestion is to simply make a commitment to do the workbook lessons. That’s the first thing I suggest because it’s going to take one year. Then you can do whatever else feels comfortable to you. You can start with the text or the Manual for Teachers. There’s additional sections in here. There’s the Clarification of Terms, the Psychotherapy Handbook, and the Song of Prayer.
My suggestion is to begin with the workbook lessons.
I always have to tell people where it is. I have to turn the pages and show them that it’s in the middle of the book, at the end of the 31st chapter. You’re going to turn the pages until you get there. It’s called “Workbook for Students”. It lists all 365 workbook lessons in a table of contents.
As a teacher, I have found that the number one overlooked aspect for people who are struggling with this book is that they did not read the introduction.
I tell people to make a one year commitment to do the workbook lessons and to do one lesson a day. After I tell people to make this commitment, I tell them to read the introduction to the workbook. It tells you exactly how to do it.
It says,
“Don’t try to understand these lessons. They are not understandable.”
Then, you just begin.
Start with Lesson 1 and do exactly what it says. Don’t try to understand it. The next day, wake up in the morning, open up the book, go to the next lesson, and just do what it says. It’s very specific. It tells you exactly how to do it.
It’s a mind training. It’s designed to undo the thought system of fear. That’s why I always suggest one year in which you make a 100% commitment.
Don’t just say, “Okay, I’ll do it and I’ll see how it goes.”
I always suggest to make that one year commitment. One year is going to go by and you will have done it.
In my experience, a lot of old baggage such as old fears and doubts starts to come up into your awareness.
You’ll want to say,
“I don’t like this book.”
That was me for years. I had so much resistance to some of the terminology in here, but someone told me something that was so helpful to me. I did not know this for the first five years.
The author is Jesus, the same guy that walked the Earth 2,000 years ago. He is the author of this book. Once I knew that, I was reading it differently.
So many say,
“I don’t understand what this book says. I don’t have a clue.”
If you read it like a letter from Jesus to you, it will be easier for you. I was always trying to understand who the “I” was that’s speaking here and who are they speaking to. I thought that perhaps this was something written for Helen Schucman. She was the one who brought it into time and space. I had difficulty with the concept of this being channeled material.
I thought, “No, this is just a woman who’s trying to get her own message into the world.”
I kept being drawn back to the book. I didn’t know what it was. I kept being curious about it. I kept being interested in it. I kept thinking about who the “I” is and who the “you” is. The “I” who is speaking as the author is Jesus Christ from 2,000 years ago, who walked with those twelve disciples, extended the love of God here on Earth, and created miracles. That’s the same person, and he’s speaking to me.
When he says, “you”, I know he is speaking to me. Jesus is with me.
How you finish the text is up to you. You need to make a commitment to set time aside to read it. You can read a chapter a day, a chapter a week, or a chapter a month. I suggest you start from the beginning and you just go. Maybe you dedicate a half an hour a day to reading. Maybe it’s something you do in the morning when you wake up. What ever way you structure finishing it is up to you.
Then there’s the Manuel for Teachers. To me, that’s an easy read.
Again, I’m just sharing my own perception. It may be different for you. I encourage you to just begin it. Begin it and allow yourself to keep an open mind. Stay curious.
Be like a child. Be like a beginner. Don’t try to understand what it says. Just do it.
At the Teachers of God Foundation, we have so many awesome programs and an amazing community for you. I wish I had that in the five years I did it alone. You don’t have to do it alone anymore. There’s so much online. There are so many amazing organizations and places where you can be inspired.
If you would like additional inspiration, I offer a one year program called ACIM 365. I give a ten minute audio talk for every single workbook lesson, for every single day of the year. It has been very helpful to many people. I don’t do the workbook lessons for you. I really believe that you have to work with your own thought system, vibration, and old ideas. I’m really just guiding and pointing out some of the things I’ve seen in these lessons. These are great reminders everyday of the commitment you have made. If you’re interested in that, it’s available under “courses” on the Teachers of God website. You do it at the pace you want to do it. It’s always there for you.
I’m so excited that you’re starting this. The reason that I’ve dedicated my own life to telling people about this is because of how it transformed my own life. I feel like my purpose now is to get people excited about this book. People feel that it’s complicated and difficult. It is not. It’s one of the easiest things that you can imagine once you open your mind up to a different perception.
Again, read it like a love letter.
Make that your commitment and just go. Have fun.
I look forward to hearing from you and the changes that occur in your life. I love you.
Question: How do YOU do A Course in Miracles? What has your experience been with it? You can leave a comment by clicking here.
A Course in Miracles clearly answers the question, “How should I react to my brother’s mistakes?”
Very simply: Don’t.
Only the ego can see ego. Only error sees error. If you are worrying about another’s mistakes, you’re both confused.
No matter how crazy someone is acting, it doesn’t change that FACT that they are the perfect, lovable, indestructible, powerful, eternal, wholly worthy, supremely Loved, Son of God. This is the only Truth and nothing they do in this human experience can change it. Your only job is to stay super-focused on this. Anything else and you’re heading down the wrong path. You are lost. You are not helpful.
In this video, I will go into this topic in more detail.
You have ONE job to do here. You came here to remember God; to remember your Wholeness. You must not let your eyes deceive you from your One function.
Whatever vision you have of this “messed up” person represents who YOU think YOU are. It’s showing you where you are locating yourself and should ONLY be used for correction. You are being clearly shown where you have buried fear and your deepest unconscious beliefs about yourself.
Hold out your hand because this brother has come to Bless you. He is the Son of God, along with You. This realization must be accepted for you to be released. Without this, you stay lost in fear.
Jesus says in ACIM that we must overlook the error. See only their Wholeness. Hold yourself there. This is how you remember your own wholeness. You cannot remember this alone. You need this brother. This is the whole purpose of your relationship. Do not use this situation to reinforce a lie. This is for YOU.
From now on, instead of correcting anyone, here are 5 steps, clearly laid out for us from A Course In Miracles:
Your task is to tell your brother he is right (this does not mean verbally) (1:6)
You heal him only (ONLY) by perceiving the sanity in Him (5:1)
You must give your brother’s errors over to the Holy Spirit (5:3)
You “see Him truly” and “accept Him as He is” (6:3, 6:4)
Accept only the function of healing (YOURSELF) in time (8.3)
When you see another make a mistake, don’t react at all to his mistake. This isn’t an easy practice to follow! And it doesn’t mean that you don’t react at all to your brother, but it does mean that you do not react to his mistake.
Instead, you join with the Holy Spirit and respond as He does. You “overlook” the error (4:2).
“To overlook nothingness is merely to judge it correctly, and because of your ability to evaluate it truly, to let it go.” (T-10.IV.2:4)
You actually overlook it, knowing it is not your job, you don’t understand what’s really going on, and then get back to being yourself; full of joy, love and allowance. TRUST.
Now, you’re helping the Truth to enter into your mind, and theirs, instead of reinforcing separation. It’s quite beautiful. You’re gifting everyone!
I know this is scary.
The world tells you that it’s sensible and loving to try to fix someone you care about. That’s just not True.
This is a whole new way of being. This is the fast-track behavior of a master. We’re taking the Band-Aid off a very old wound. We’re laying down our fearful defenses and getting out of the way. Let the fear come up and hand it to One who can heal it. I am with you.
Question: What are your thoughts or takeaways on this topic? You can leave a comment by clicking here.
I will be sure to read every one.
So much Love and Gratitude for this journey we are on together,
Linda
p.s. If you really want to commit yourself to a new way of thinking, to becoming aware of these deep unconscious beliefs that are causing you needless worry and conflict, please join me on January 15th for a FREE 40 Day On-Line Program of Personal Transformation. Thousands of us will be with you. You’ll be guided and supported to stay in Right thinking for 40 Days. You’ll be totally blown away by the transformation that takes place in you. I hope to see you there. Let’s be fearless together! Here is the link to register.
Lisa Natoli's Personal Theory on How Doing the Workbook Lessons Changes Your Brainwaves
The most powerful way I know to transform your life is to DO the workbook lessons of A Course in Miracles. It takes one year to complete, with 365 lessons.
Many people begin on January 1st which is right around the corner.
In the video below, I explain my own personal theory of how I believe the workbook lessons actually work – the reason why Jesus (the author of A Course in Miracles) says in the Introduction to not try to understand these lessons “they are not understandable” but to simply do them.
After struggling for many years to do the workbook lessons (with minimal results even after having completed them), a thought came to me about why I was having such difficulty and what I needed to do differently to experience the results it promises: to transcend conflict, fear and doubt and to enter into a state of mind of joy and peace.
My theory is that when you do the workbook lessons EXACTLY as they state – just do what it says and don’t think about it – you change your brain waves.
And when you change your brain waves, miracles occur.
In this video, I share my own personal experience of doing the workbook lessons and how they can change your life.
All you need is a copy of A Course in Miracles, which is available in bookstores and on Amazon. Make a commitment to one year. Read the Introduction to the Workbook Lessons (this is important), and then do one lesson a day for a year.
It’s a one-year audio program to take you through all 365 lessons – a 10-minute daily audio talk for every single workbook lessons, one for all 365 days of the year, click here for the details of the online program I created called ACIM 365.
It will give you a good idea of what this program is like.
Love,
Lisa
Question: I would love to hear from you! Are you doing the workbook lessons?? Have you done them already? If you have done them already (or you are currently doing them now) what is your experience? How has your life changed? Inspire others and leave a comment below You can leave a comment by clicking here.
I love the colors, the beautiful Christmas carols, and the holiday songs. I also love to witness people beginning to pause and think about other people. alot of people, including me, genuinely live in somewhat of an altered state beginning with Thanksgiving (which is my favorite favorite holiday) and ending at New Years Day.
Christmas has accounted for some the happiest (and also a few of saddest) times in my life, but in general I LOVE IT.
I mostly love it, even though it’s largely been made into a meaningless commercialized shopping and selling frenzy, behind it and at it’s inception IS…
The BEST news the world will ever know.
The news is that even though we may have been totally wrong about the message portrayed of Jesus for nearly 2000 years, the Truth is way better than we ever could have imagined.
What If Legend and History Were Wrong?
What if most of the Bible stories were mistaken about the message of Jesus the Christ, and that all of us are just what Jesus is?
This might blow your mind. I hope it does. 🙂
For just 15 minutes press the pause button on the thinking mind, traditional beliefs about Jesus and the stories we’ve all heard from Bible stories, friends or family and allow yourself to be open to a better story, a more sensible understanding of what Jesus was here to share with all the world until the end of time.
Maybe It’s time to embrace Christmas with a whole new understanding, which will also give you a brand new experience of this seasonal joining around the world.
Watch this video and see if you don’t come away feeling more a part of the Christmas message than you ever imagined:
Like the song Joy to the World: Give yourSelf and others a gift this year. Sing the songs you hear about Jesus and make them about you and your brother, your sister your neighbor the Christ. This child of Bethlehem is the Christ that is born in you and this truly is the born again experience.
Try this as a practice and you will actually embody and share Christ with all the world and yourself.
When you look on anyone for the next 10 days no matter what the situation, in your mind say:
You are Christ, pure and innocent, and all is forgiven and released.
Share Your Experience: Has this video blog been helpful in providing you with a new way of seeing the Blessings and the Joy even in the commercialized version of Christmas? Has it been insightful? You can leave a comment by clicking here.
We have A Course in Miracles group that meets every Friday Live online at 10:30 Eastern. Last week I gave a talk on Grace Wb lesson 168 and 169 from the Course. If you have any questions about the Power you have in Grace, watch the replay:
Have a Merry Christmas and the best year ever in 2017.
I Love You,
Bill Free
P.S. If you would like to sign up for ACIM 365 before January 15th 2017 and save almost $100 the price is going up to $247 and you can get it now for the 2016 price.
Question: What was your biggest takeaway from this video? You can leave a comment by clicking here.
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We wanted to give you an early Christmas present because it’s too good to wait!
Everyone is going to wonder where you got it so they can get it too!
This gift comes wrapped with so much Love. No, really.
Amid the hustle and bustle of the holidays, this gift will instantly remind you of the divine perfection that is here and in every one of us.
What is this gift you ask?
It’s a game.
We’re giving you a new game for Christmas. Just like when you were a kid.
It’s a really fun game because every time you play, you get a prize.
It’s a holiday game of JOY and Awakening.
It’s portable so you can play it anywhere. It’s called the…
“HOLIDAY TRUTH GAME.”
Here are the game rules:
The object of the game is to get as many points as possible. Every time you see one of the symbols below and use it as a reminder of the Truth, you get a point. The more points you earn, the bigger your prize!
Here goes. Good luck.
Each time you see a wreath, remember that you are infinite and eternal with no beginning and no ending. You were never born and you will never taste death.
Let every star you see remind you to follow Jesus, just the way the dignitaries did. He is right here and he’s asking you to join Him. Take His hand. He represents who you were created to be and came to help you get there.
Legend tells of a poor girl who could only offer the Baby Jesus a handful of weeds, but when she gave them to Him they blossomed into lush red plants. Each time you see a Poinsettia, offer up all of your weeds knowing they will be transformed into something beautiful.
Holiday lights come in all colors and sizes just like us! No matter what color we are or WHERE WE ARE on this journey, we are all reflections of God’s Perfect Love. No matter what.
All the needles on the tree point upward reminding us where to direct every thought. This is the fast-track to healing.
When you see ornaments it represents how each of us can adorn this life with our own uniqueness. Be yourself. That’s all you have to be. Never compare. God created you perfectly.
We are all tied together as one. We are not separate from God or separate from each other. Let the bow become a symbol of our Unity. We are all the One Son of God.
A Gingerbread man does not create himself. You do not create yourself. A cute and tasty reminder that you are as God created you.
Last, but certainly not least… the only real gift you can ever give anyone is to recognize the Christ in them with no judgment. This gift instantly heals both of you. You MUST see their divine perfection before you’ll ever remember your own. Seriously, this is the gift that keeps on giving!
The whole point of this game is to have fun and frolic through this season as if you already have everything.
Because you do. And we should all fall on our knees with praise and thanks at the realization of this.
Not to mention, each time one of us is in alignment with the Truth, we’re all raised up. Every person and every part! And the more who play, the higher it goes! The bigger the prize gets!
You see?
We share One mind. This is a very important game and everyone wins, even those who aren’t playing right now. Your participation means the world. LITERALLY!
Question: Can I count you in? Will you play the Holiday Truth Game with me? You can leave a comment by clicking here.
The Course in Miracles teaches us that the miracle is a shift in perception, from fear to love. In relationships, it is not the so-called “reality” of the situation that disturbs our peace (aka pisses us off, makes us want to kill / trade-in / divorce our spouses, put our teens up for adoption, run people off the road, tell our bosses to take this job and shove it, call our friends out on their shit, whatever…) but rather, it is our perception of it.
And as the Course also reminds us, projection makes perception, therefore our perceptions are not reliable reporters, being made up of our ego projections onto the world. So, basically, we don’t know jack shit about relationships and what we’re supposed to be doing in them, and we need a miracle to help us figure it out.
So, this is a story of a miracle.
One of my best friends and favorite people in the Universe is a woman who, for the purpose of this story, I shall refer to as Princess – one of the three pet names (the other two being Precious and Punkin) by which we have called one another for most of the 40 years we have been friends. In our long history together we have shared many experiences – beginning as classmates (each giving the other what I am pretty sure was the only vote for Homecoming Queen either of us probably received) and even living together with my family during our senior year. We were in one another’s weddings, I am Godparent to her four children, she journeyed with me through the loss of both of my parents. We adventured in fun places together, and participated in countless girl’s weekends.
We were very similar in many ways – we shared a penchant for irreverent humor and engaged in hilarious banter (I still think there may be no one I have laughed so hard with that wine came out my nose so many times) and had numerous parallel experiences – supporting one another through divorce, returning to higher education, finding new partners, launching new careers, interwoven with a certain amount of crazy which is probably best left filed under “Dodged Bullets”.
As our lives evolved, however, the ego mind began to insinuate itself into our relationship, and caused an insidious sense of separation. Princess met a wonderful man, and as she built a life with him, her socio-economic life upscaled significantly from where it had been and began to look very different from mine.
At the same time, my 20-year career was ending – crashing and burning, really, in the wake of 9/11 – and I found myself starting over, going back to school, and having no money. Despite a life being raised as a student of metaphysics and New Thought, fear got its hooks into me and I was mired in both lack and victim consciousness.
While I struggled financially as a full-time student while working in the mental health field, I witnessed evidence of Princess’s wonderful lifestyle, and I regret to say I became very jealous and envious. She and I were from the same home town, and my inner critic (the voice of the ego) criticized me viciously and relentlessly for not having been able to make the same luxurious life happen for myself. I felt that there was something flawed in me that I hadn’t attracted the same abundance and prosperity, that perhaps I was not deserving of it, or I wasn’t smart enough, or I had made the wrong choices.
But – spoiler alert – the ego mind doesn’t necessarily allow us to sit with our own feelings of responsibility or guilt for what we experience, rather instead it encourages us to deny it and project our feelings toward ourselves outward onto someone else and blame them for our suffering.
At around the same time I had become a student of A Course in Miracles.
Although I had grown up attending a Unity church and my mother was a student of Truth, A Course in Miracles was the first theosophical set of ideas that really answered everything for me. I avidly read the text, practiced the lessons; I found Course teachers and read their books, attended their workshops, and listened to their cd’s. I immersed myself in the philosophy of A Course in Miracles (although you’d never know it with all of the judgments, resentments, grievances, and victim consciousness I was still giving shelter to).
The next thing that happened was that Princess came out as an atheist.
My reaction was one of defensiveness – feeling that she was, in her expression of her belief, insulting my own. Over the next few years, the toxic combination of my hidden negative emotions and my perception of her implied judgment of my belief system resulted in our friendship devolving into in an unstable, volatile state, ripe for an egoic cataclysmic reaction. That opportunity came eventually – the details of the form in which it showed up aren’t relevant here. Suffice it to say that there was no way, given what I had been harboring, that it couldn’t. Something happened – not even between Princess and me directly, but through other people involved – and we became estranged.
Although this is where my resentful thoughts had taken me, I was not prepared for what I felt. It was as if my arm had been amputated – this person who had loved me for more than two-thirds of my life, who had been such an integral part of my life, was suddenly just gone. I experienced grief as if she had died. I cried, I dreamt about her, I wrote unsent letters. I talked to her, in my mind and sometimes out loud. But I was also angry and resentful, and so I alternated between righteously reminding myself of all of my perceived reasons for being justified in my anger, and wanting it all to disappear so that we could go back to being the friends we were years ago before it all got so complicated.
But mostly, I let the anger win out.
One thing I had learned to do as a Course in Miracles student was practice forgiveness.
The Course’s version of forgiveness recognizes that the perceived offense never actually happened, because the world is an illusionary projection that we are making up in our minds. It is like a dream, and so holding another person responsible for harming us is sort of like being mad at them for something they did to us last night in our dream, and in Course philosophy, is therefore viewed as ridiculous.
The forgiveness process is to forgive the person for what they have not done, remembering that one is dreaming an illusion made up by the ego mind, forgiving oneself for dreaming it, and releasing the whole situation to Spirit to be healed.
I use a wonderful prayer given to Course teacher Gary Renard by his own teachers;
“You are Spirit, pure, whole, and innocent. All is forgiven and released. I am Spirit, pure, whole, and innocent. All is forgiven and released.”
As we practice this form of forgiveness, our projections are dissolved, so our perceptions change, which changes our experience of the world for the better.
The Course tells us that forgiveness is the closest thing to real, unconditional love we are able know on the level of form. Over time, as it did its work of dissolving my egoic thoughts, my heart began softening toward Princess. I eventually came to think of our friendship as being on “inactive” status, feeling that someday, somehow, we would be friends again.
One evening three years later, I was celebrating my birthday with two girlfriends at my home. A large box had arrived with a return label I did not recognize. When I opened it, I found a gorgeous set of twelve colorful, handblown wine glasses (it’s interesting that metaphysically, twelve represents the number of completion) and a note from Princess explaining that her in-laws had made their transition within the past two years, and she wanted me to have the goblets, as they reminded her of me, and because her in-laws had liked me.
And with her extension of that olive branch, our estrangement was over, just like that.
There is also an amazing epilogue:
I thought that the miracle of Princess extending love to me was the end of the story. However, although it certainly embodied a shift in perception, and a return to love, the true healing came a year later on the occasion of my next birthday. Princess, whose atheism I had finally come to accept as her choice, and not a reflection or judgment of my own, sent me the most incredible wall hanging, which read,
Namaste
I honor the place in you that is the same in me.
I honor the place in you where
The whole universe resides.
I honor the place in you
Of love, of light, of peace, and of truth.
I honor the place in you
That is the same in me.
There is but One.
Namaste.
So, basically, my atheistic friend symbolically wrote on my wall the central teaching of A Course in Miracles. WE ARE ONE.
Forgiveness rocks.
Question: Do you have an area of your life or a relationship that you still need to practice forgiveness? You can leave a comment by clicking here.
Kelly Russell
Licensed Practitioner, Ordained ACIM Minister
Teachers of God Foundation
Newbury, MA
The great shift in consciousness has begun. It’s being called “A Time of Massive Transformation”. It’s happening right now. It just got real. It’s a time of deep healing and a collective awakening.
You have been invited but the choice is yours and it must be a conscious one. You must make a deliberate decision. Your certainty is required in order to attend.
You are being called upon to heal the world. Are you coming or not?
This could be the most important question you’ve ever answered. Are you coming or not? You must decide. Know this: If you choose not to come, you will most certainly be in conflict. You will be afraid. It will not be comfortable.
Are you coming?
Or not?
Before you accept this invitation to heal the world, you must first accept these 2 Laws of Healing.
1) Healing is NEVER outside yourself. NEVER.
I truly realize how desperately you want to see improvements in the world. You will NOT change this outside of you. Not by praying, not by marching, donating, joining, ranting or lobbying. This will keep you stuck and frustrated.
You are being pushed right now to take responsibility for your part and your part only.
Jesus says in ACIM:
The world you see is what you gave it. Nothing more than that. It is the witness to your state of mind, the outside picture of an inward condition. Therefore, seek not to change the world, but choose to change your mind about the world. The world you see but shows you how much joy you have allowed yourself to see in you, and to accept as yours. And, if this is its meaning, then the power to give it joy must lie within you. T. 21
Woah. Perhaps you should read that again.
So let me ask you:
What do you see when you look out upon the world?
Where do you see that healing is needed?
That’s exactly the place where you need healing.
Do you see materialism and greed? Where are YOU trying to meet your needs from the outside in?
Does the thought of building walls and exclusion upset you? Where do you feel there’s not enough to go around? Who have you not let into your heart or your home?
Do you see the world as sick and separate? When do you feel sick and separate?
Do you ever find yourself hating the haters? Judging the judgers?
It is promised.
When you heal that part in you, you heal it in the world.
2) Love is the only thing that heals. ONLY.
Big statement here. No wiggle room.
Not romantic, sappy, mushy love. Not the way you love spicy food, puppies, a situation or a person. Not the kind of love that changes, is demanding, conditional or keeps score. That love is a mixed bag and it’s very confusing. Let’s call that “Old World love”.
The Love that heals is just like God’s Love. It has no limits. It has nothing to do with the physical world. It is constant and includes everyone without exception. It allows everything. It doesn’t change with the circumstances. It’s One with everything. It gives itself wholly and only gains thereby. It is Joy. Let’s call this “Real Love”.
“Real Love” is the Love we were born with. “Old World love” is what we learned.
So, are you coming or not?
If you’re hesitant, it must be one of the following reasons.
“Right now, it’s important that I honor my feelings of fear.”
Yes. Your feelings are very important. They are showing you where YOU need healing. They’re directing you to where you have hidden fear and showing you exactly where forgiveness is needed within you. That is how you honor your feelings. Projecting your feelings onto others or wallowing in them is not honoring anything.
“I’m not there yet.”
Please allow me to be very direct here. “Old World love” or “Real Love” is a choice that you make. You have complete control. You’re “there” if you want to be. It’s a conscious decision. You decide which one is driving the bus. It can’t be both. You choose. Instead of saying, “I’m not there yet”, you can be honest and say, “Blaming is more familiar and therefore, more comfortable for me right now. I’m not taking responsibility for any of this. Somebody else needs to fix this. I’m choosing to stay separate”.
“There is no way I can just sit around and accept (fill in the blank). That’s just irresponsible.”
Listen, acceptance doesn’t mean giving up or condoning. It means giving yourself completely to God’s plan. It’s knowing that resisting or judging is the way you keep the situation alive. Acceptance is how you open your mind to the place where miracles reside and solutions are found.
“It’s too hard to change my thinking.”
Yes, it does feel awkward at first. It requires a different kind of seeing than you’re used to. But becoming willing to Love the way God Loves is so much easier than “Old world Love”. There is no difficulty at all because it is a state of Grace. It’s Heaven, right here on earth.
A Course in Miracles tells us that we can be re-taught Real Love’s meaning by the Holy Spirit but we have to choose it. THAT’S OUR ONLY JOB. We first have to be willing to step out of our old state of mind and away from “Old world love”. We have a guide, NO, legions of guides, just waiting for us to reach up and say,
“I’m ready for a better way!”
This entire situation is before you to teach you Real Love. Unconditional Love. Love without attack. The only kind of Love there is. This is the only purpose of time and it’s totally an inside job. Making this decision for Real Love will bring a profound shift in your life and your outer reality (aka; the world) will change right along with it.
Now you’re a world healer. Now you’re making a difference.
So, are you coming or not? Are you willing to soften and adapt with a deeper awareness of what’s within you? Can you leave behind the heavy burden of fighting and fixing the unfixable and shift your focus on healing the separation in YOUR mind?
Do you see that healing the world comes from YOUR decision to be One again?
You’re being forced to decide right now. To wake up or to sleepwalk a while longer. You are being called. Do you choose to listen?
Question: Are you ready to be a person of expansion and elevation no matter what’s happening outside of you? Will you be that One that extends perfect Love? You can leave a comment by clicking here.
I am. I am that One. I am here to heal the world. Are you coming?
If you have any difficulty with Trump being the new United States President (or any other difficulties in general), I encourage you to read this post and watch the one-hour video (below) of our recent Friday morning Course in Miracles group.
My mom watched this video a few days ago and then called me on the phone and said: “I now feel okay with everything that’s occurring with Trump. I don’t feel any of the conflict I was feeling. I realize that nothing can disturb my peace unless I allow it”.
I LOVE MY MOM! She’s willing and open to see things differently. She is willing to LOVE, no matter what.
This one hour talk – with Linda Leland, Bonnie Kimball and Kelly Russell – was inspired by this message I posted on Facebook on Wednesday morning when I found out Trump was the new President:
I didn’t vote for Trump – I voted for Hillary – but I’m happy Trump won the Presidency. I think it’s awesome and I feel excited. How can this be? Because I love WHAT IS. I recognize I know nothing and I’m always in joyful expectancy of whatever is unfolding in front of me, staying in the wonder of it all. I’ve trained myself to be in joy, no matter what occurs. This is power. This is love. Let’s all get on board with WHAT IS. I knew when I voted last night that I would be happy no matter who won or which direction it went – because my happiness is not dependent on anything outside of me. My happiness is dependent on my connection with God, my Self. So congratulations President Trump! You have my support.
Also in this video: Why sending love and light – and even prayer – is actually an attack. It’s a good first step for many people (and well-intentioned – because it is an act of giving) but if you think about it – it’s really an idea that someone/something needs to be different than how they are right now – which means you aren’t seeing them at all – and that’s an attack. Everything is whole and perfect right now.
ENJOY!
After you have watched the video, we would love to hear from you!
