Rules to Live By That Guarantee a Day of Joy and Miracles, Every Day

By Lisa Natoli

It’s Thursday morning here in Maine, a beautiful day and it’s going to be a happy day.

How do I know?

Because every day is a happy day because I follow precise rules every morning as a daily practice that guarantee a happy day … which I am going to enclose in this email message for you.

You probably already know about these rules if you have read A Course in Miracles.

But do you practice them every day?

I “knew” about these rules – but only on an intellectual level. I was an EXPERT on these rules. I could quote them and talk about them, but I was not doing them.

I was not practicing. And so they were meaningless to me – just words on paper.

For years and years, my days were at random, a lot of confusion and frustration. I would have moments of happiness, but never a day that was happy from start to finish.

But here in Chapter 30 in the Text of A Course in Miracles called “Rules for Decision” – it says there are rules that GUARANTEE a happy day every day. These are “rules by which you live – rules that PROMISE you a happy day.”

That’s pretty amazing, right? How come we’re not all having a happy day, every day.

Because it says we need to practice these rules until they become habits .. “until they are rules by which you live.”

If this sounds interesting to you, then read on.

How can you have a happy day every day?

By making no decisions by yourself.

You are not alone. You have a Guide.

To have a happy day, you acknowledge that you have a Guide (God, the Holy Spirit, Jesus, whatever you want to call this Infinite Wisdom that is within you).

Then … all day long, you make NO decisions by yourself.

You make all decisions with your Guide.You acknowledge that God is with you, all day long.

You will have the best day ever!

So before you do anything, before you say anything, before you make a move, before you eat anything, before you make a phone call, before you go on the internet, before you do anything, you take a moment to be still, to check in, to remember that you’re not alone. You acknowledge your Guide – your Advisor – and you ask:

What would you have me do?
What would you have me say, and to whom?
Where would you have me go?

 

This GUARANTEES a happy day.

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There is only one way to know this is absolutely true and it is to experiment with these ideas in your life.

You and your Advisor must agree on what will happen today before it will happen. So it’s necessary to make time to sit with your Advisor and come to an agreement.

It’s explained perfectly right here:

This is “Rules for Decision” from Chapter 30. This is from the original unedited manuscript of A Course in Miracles, written on May 22, 1968:

Rules for Decision

The “new beginning” now becomes the focus of the curriculum. The goal is clear, but now you need specific methods for attaining it. The speed by which it can be reached depends on only this; your willingness to practice every step. Each one will help a little, every time it is attempted. And, together, they will lead you both from dreams of judgment to forgiving dreams, and out of pain and fear. They are not new to you, but they are more ideas than rules of thought to you as yet. So now we need to practice them awhile, until they are the rules by which you live. We seek to make them habits now, so you will have them ready, and for ANY need.

Decisions are continuous. You do not always know when you are making them. But, with a little practice in the ones you recognize, a set begins to form which sees you through the rest. It is not wise to let yourself become preoccupied with every step you take. The proper set, adopted consciously each time you wake, will put you well ahead. And if you find resistance strong and dedication weak, you are not ready. DO NOT FIGHT YOURSELF. But think about the kind of day you want, and tell yourself there is a way by which this very day can happen just like that. Then try again to HAVE the day you want.

1. The outlook starts with this:

“Today I will make NO decisions by myself.”

This means that you are choosing NOT to be the judge of what to do. But it must ALSO mean you will not judge the situations where you will be called upon to make response. For if you judge them, you HAVE set the rules for how you should react to them. And then ANOTHER answer cannot BUT produce confusion and uncertainty AND FEAR. This is your major problem now. You still make up your minds, and THEN decide to ask what you should do. And what you hear may not resolve the problem AS YOU SAW IT FIRST. This leads to fear, because it contradicts what you perceive, and so you feel attacked. AND THEREFORE ANGRY. There are rules by which this will not happen. But it does occur, at first, to everyone who listens well.

2. Throughout the day, at any time you think of it, and have a quiet moment for reflection, tell yourself again the kind of day you want; the feelings you would have, the things you WANT to happen, and the things you WOULD experience. And say,

“If I make no decisions by myself, this is the day that will be GIVEN me.”


These two procedures, practiced well, will serve to let you be directed WITHOUT fear, for opposition will not FIRST arise, and THEN become a problem in itself. But there will still be times when you have judged already. Now the answer will provoke attack, unless you quickly straighten out your mind to WANT an answer that will work. Be certain this has happened, if you feel yourself to be unwilling to sit by, and ask to have the answer GIVEN you. This means you HAVE decided by yourself, AND CANNOT SEE THE QUESTION. Now you need a quick restorative BEFORE you ask.

3. Remember once again the day you want, and recognize that something has occurred which is not part of it. Then realize that you have asked a question by yourself, and MUST have set an answer in your terms. Then say,

“I have no question. I forgot what to decide.”


This cancels out the terms which you have set, and lets the ANSWER show you what the question MUST have really been. Try to observe this rule without delay DESPITE your opposition. For you have ALREADY gotten angry, and your fear of being answered in a different way from what YOUR version of the question asks will gain momentum until you believe the day you want is one in which you get YOUR answer to your question. And you will not get it, for it would destroy the day by robbing you of what you REALLY want. This can be very hard to realize, when once you have decided by yourself the rules which PROMISE you a happy day. But these decisions still can be undone, by simple methods which you CAN accept.

4. If you are so unwilling to receive you cannot even let your QUESTION go, you can begin to change your mind with this:

“At least I can decide I do not LIKE what I feel now.”



This much is obvious, and paves the way for the next easy step, which follows like this.

5. Having decided that you do not like the way you feel, what could be easier than to continue with –

“And so I HOPE I have been wrong.”



This works AGAINST the sense of opposition, and reminds you that help is not being thrust upon you, but is something that you want and that you need BECAUSE you do not like the way you feel. This tiny opening will be enough to let you go ahead with just a few more steps you need to LET yourself be helped.

6. Now you have reached the turning point, because it has occurred to you that YOU will gain, if what you have decided is NOT so. Until this point is reached, you will believe your happiness DEPENDS on being right. But this much reason have you now attained; YOU would be better off if you were WRONG. This tiny grain of wisdom will suffice to take you further. You are NOT coerced, but merely hope to have a thing you WANT. And you can say in perfect honesty,

“I WANT another way to look at this.”


Now you have changed your mind about the day, and have REMEMBERED what you really want. Its purpose has no longer been obscured by the insane belief you want it for the goal of being right when you are wrong. This is the readiness for asking brought to your awareness, for you cannot be in conflict when you ask for what you want, and see that it is this for which you ask.

7. This final step is but acknowledgment of lack of opposition to be helped. It is a statement of an open mind, not certain yet, but willing to be shown:

“Perhaps there IS another way to look at this. What can I LOSE by asking?”


Thus are you made ready for a question that makes sense, and so the answer will make sense as well. Nor will you fight against it, for you see that it is YOU who will be helped by it.

It must be clear that it is easier to have a happy day if you prevent unhappiness from entering at all. But this takes practice in the rules which will protect you from the ravages of fear. When this has been achieved, the sorry dream of judgment has forever been undone. But, meanwhile, you have need for practicing the rules for its undoing. Let us, then, consider once again the very first of the decisions which are offered here.

We said you can begin a happy day with the determination not to make decisions by yourself. This seems to be a free decision in itself. And yet, you CANNOT make decisions by yourself. The only question really is with WHAT you choose to make them. That is really all.

no decisions by myself

The first rule, then, is not coercion, but a simple statement of a simple fact. You will not make decisions by yourself WHATEVER you decide. For they are made with idols or with God. And you ask help of Christ or anti-Christ, and which you choose will join with you, and tell you what to do.

Your day is not at random. It is set by what you choose to live it with, and how the friend whose counsel you have sought perceives your happiness. You always ask advice before you can decide anything. Let THIS be understood, and you can see there cannot be coercion here, nor grounds for opposition that you may be free. There IS no freedom from what must occur. And if you think there is, you must be wrong.

The second rule as well is but a fact. For you and your advisor must agree on what you want before it can occur. It is but this AGREEMENT which permits all things to happen. Nothing can be caused without some form of union, be it with a dream of judgment or the Voice of God. Decisions cause results BECAUSE they are not made in isolation. They are made by you and your advisor, for yourself, and for the world as well. The day you want you offer to the world, for it will be what you have asked for, and will reinforce the rule of your advisor through the world. Whose kingdom is the world for you today? What kind of day will you decide to have?

It needs but two who would have happiness this day to promise it to all the world. It needs but two to understand that they cannot decide alone, to guarantee the joy they asked for will be wholly shared. For they have understood the basic law which makes decision powerful, and gives it all effects that it will ever have. It needs but two. These two are joined before there CAN be a decision. Let this be the one reminder that you keep in mind, and you will have the day you want, and give it to the world by having it yourselves. Your judgment has been lifted from the world by your decision for a happy day. And as you have received so must you give.

I would love to hear your thoughts about these rules.

Question: Do you think if you lived every day by these rules it would make a difference for you? You can leave a comment by clicking here.

Love,

Lisa

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Now will I seek and find the peace of God

I love how A Course in Miracles are simple & practical directives – instructions that I give to myself.

“NOW WILL I SEEK AND FIND THE PEACE OF GOD.” – Workbook Lesson 230

 

Today’s workbook lesson is a great one: NOW will I seek and FIND the peace of God.

And that’s the end of suffering. That’s the end of pain and problems.

because now … right now … I find the peace of God.

 

I found what I was looking for!

 

In peace I was created.

And in peace do I remain.

It is not given me to change my Self.

How merciful is God my Father, that when He created me He gave me peace forever.

Now I ask but to be what I am.

And can this be denied me, when it is forever so?

“Father, I seek the peace You gave as mine in my creation. What was given then must be here now, for my creation was apart from time, and still remains beyond all change. The peace in which Your Son was born into Your Mind is shining there unchanged. I am as You created me. I need but call on You to find the peace You gave. It is Your Will that gave it to Your Son.”

 

In peace I was created. And in peace do I remain.

I love this practice of allowing myself to be shown what to do, what to say and where to go. This space is always so new. How could I ever know anything? But with me is a Guide who knows the whole Plan. I trust in Him.

It’s like landing in a new school mid-way through the school year and you don’t know who anyone is. You don’t know who your friends are yet. You don’t know what the day is going to look like. You’re just standing there brand new in the new space.

You get to be the new kid on the block.

How merciful is God my Father that when He created me He gave me peace forever!!

The past is gone. Not a trace of it remains.

The “work” of a Teacher of God is to allow the Holy Spirit to remove all traces of doubt, guilt and fear, and that all!

 

And to be what I am.

 Now I ask but to be what I am.

And can this be denied me, when it is forever so?

As a communication channel for the light of Heaven, I only have to be myself as God created me. What could be simpler?

Here is the peace of God.

Here is the function of a Teacher of God: to find that peace today.

Now will I seek and find the peace of God.

I love you.